So many books, so many magazines. So many wasted sheets of paper to explain something that not even their authors completely understand.So many websites, so many blogs. So many wasted bytes of data with misleading information.So much music, so many movies. So much entertainment leaving people blind with a false concept.As it is mentioned in the biblical quote:"...If a blind man leads a blind man, both will fall into a pit." (Matthew 15:14 NIV])And much of society has fallen into a pit because of what music, entertainment and modern culture has lead them to believe about love, sex and relationships.Proof that modern culture is blind to these topics are their own results. We see their high divorce rates, continuous affairs, multiple scandals, sex tapes, and many broken relationships within their own society.If the majority of those famous artist who speak about love, sex and relationships have the right concept, then they shouldn't have so many problems with them.Sadly, many people who … [Read more...] about The Misunderstanding of Relationships
There has been a lot of talk recently about the role of attraction in a relationship. I'm sure you've been in a situation like this: you are dating a woman, and things are going great. She's fantastic to look at, and you are enjoying the fun times. One day though, you wake up and notice that she's not doing it for you anymore. The attraction has faded, and you are left with someone who is a bit of a stranger. You might be asking yourself how this happens, and how you can prevent it. I'll address both of those questions. Understand that there are several types of attraction. There is the physical part, which everyone knows. That tends to fade over time, no matter how good looking she is. And to make things worse, we often tend to focus on what we DON'T like about a person, rather than what we do. For a man, I think it's hard-wiring. We're born to be problem solvers. So we look at what we don't like about us and try to fix it. Unfortunately, a bit of that thinking leaks over into our … [Read more...] about Moving Beyond Attraction In A Relationship
There are a lot of quizzes on the Internet that aim to analyze your relationship. They want to tell you how compatible you are with your boyfriend, and they want to tell you how good of a boyfriend or girlfriend you have. Some quizzes will even try and tell you if your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you with someone else. But these quizzes cause nothing but problems and issues in relationships, and should be avoided. Below I will outline 4 major reasons why you should avoid these quizzes when you are in a relationship. They Make You Paranoid You might not realize it when you take the quize, but they can actually make you paranoid about your relationship. The main problem with these quizzes is that they will give you advice that could cause you to question the merits of your significant other, and of your relationship. And unfortunately, many of these quizzes make these assertions without any proof. The danger is that you may start to believe that your relationship is doomed … [Read more...] about 4 Reasons To Avoid Taking Boyfriend or Girlfriend Relationship Quizzes
For those who don't know, a rebound relationship is one where a person dates somebody else in the aim of forgetting his or her ex. Usually people do this to get over the sadness and all kind of emotions associated with break ups. Therefore, if your girl is in a rebound relationship, it is simply because she is trying to forget you, which means she still holds on you. You are still her true love. No matter what and who caused the break up, all true love based relationships have a greater chance of success. So, you can get your ex girlfriend back. You know for a girl, focusing on another guy, his wants and desires when she already has someone she dies for in her heart is not easy. She will be dealing with new tastes, new choices and new habits that are completely different from yours. Adapting to the differences will make her think of you even more. Of course the relationship you were sharing lacked something, otherwise you wouldn't have broken up. Now, when she is with someone else … [Read more...] about Can You Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back From A Rebound Relationship?
I had the pleasure of being interviewed for a feature article in the June 2008 issue of Eve Magazine, where Catherine Gray, who was lovely during the interview, poses the question: "Are you with the wrong man? Successful women are now turning their backs on driven, ambitious men and finding happiness with laid-back, domestic types." According to Gray's research, - The alpha female intimidates the traditional alpha male and her success is a passion killer for him - A man's chances of marriage goes up with his IQ, but for each 16 point rise in a woman's IQ, her prospects of getting hitched decline by 40%. - Women are only admitting to half their salaries and dumbing themselves down in a bid to attract men, which even I, in the article, confessed to having thought about doing! More on that later... The bottom line according to Gray is that "alpha/alpha relationships often lead to conflict and not blissful harmony." The obvious answer seems to be to partner up with a Beta Male - someone … [Read more...] about Successful Alpha Female Relationships: Part One